This is a complicated situation for both parents. If you don’t have children, then the divorce will be a little easier. There are numerous situations that you need to take care of, and you need to make sure that it is the thing you want. Keep in mind that handling a divorce is not that easy. Children are the biggest problem. We don’t mean that they are the problem you need to get rid of. They will want to see their other parent or maybe they won’t. Imagine a situation that they don’t want to see their daddy or mommy and the court had stated that they need to see their other parent twice a week because it is the right of the parent to see their children. Sometimes, the court won’t make a perfect judgment, so it is up to you to handle it.
The best option is to call your ex and make a deal. For example, children don’t want to see their parent, but the parent wants to bond and wants to maintain a normal contact. The best option is to call your ex at your home. That way, they will slowly bond with their parent and the children won’t feel unpleasant when they are out of their home. This is a solution for those situations where there wasn’t any domestic violence. If there was violence, then the best option is to forbid the other parent to ever come near you. Once a violent person, always a violent person. These problems can be solved, but in real life, it is not that easy. Keep in mind that it is your right and the court will usually take everything into consideration when there is domestic violence.
We know that it is not easy to handle a divorce. It can be frustrating, but the best thing to do is be positive. You have closed one door and opened another.
Always look in the future. If you have children, you need to understand that you are living with them and for you. You will find true love.